This month, we’re talking about the “pull of habit”—when our habits are so set in stone that we sacrifice other parts of our life in order to keep that habit safe. When we settle into our comfort zone like this, our lives become unbalanced, and we are not putting 100%…
Category: Relationships
Finding Your Heart in Soul Friendships
Soul-friendships, as described by Susan in Dare to Connect, are connections made through our Higher Selves. When people talk about having close friends, these are the type that we usually mean. These friends are the type whose company we enjoy, but also the friends we can confide in and find…
Other Ways to Greet the Light
In August’s newsletter article, we talked about creating connections by silently saying to those we meet, “I greet the light within you.” In Dare to Connect, Susan wrote about other phrases that can be used to connect with others through our Higher Selves. Here is an excerpt: Another variation of…
Giving is About Being Your Best
We give presents and our time to try to make other people happy, to add a little joy to their lives. When we give from a place of love and trust, we are expanding our own lives and adding to our own blessings. Giving is about being your best, regardless…
Techniques for Dealing with Push Back
When we are working on improving ourselves and we face push back from the people we love, we need to use the right tools in order to deflect any negativity. If we don’t and we might lash out and start arguments, then we aren’t helping ourselves or those around us.…
Finding a ‘Gratitude Buddy’
We’re talking this month about how easy it is to fall into a feedback loop of complaining. In Chapter 12 of End the Struggle and Dance With Life, “Wake Up To the Abundance,” Susan talks about how we can express in conversation how grateful we are for the blessings that…
Thoughtfulness is Loving
As we are talking about taking action to keep love alive and romantic this month, we thought we’d share this excerpt from The Feel the Fear Guide to Lasting Love. Susan talks about subtle ways to show your partner that you care. They may seem obvious or even silly, but…
Putting Love Back on the Menu
Most of us, especially if we’ve been with our partner for a long time, tend to fall into comfortable habits that lead us to take for granted our most important relationship. We might make an effort for Valentine’s Day, as it’s expected, but the rest of the year, we treat…
Giving Love and Thanks
In this month’s article, we are talkingabout giving Susan’s favorite gifts – POWER, PEACE, and LOVE. In Life is Huge, Susan wrote about giving the gift of LOVE. Here is an excerpt. I would recommendwriting a letter thanking your loved ones for all they have contributed to yourlife. And how…
It’s Never Too Late to Be Timeless
This month we’re talking about being Timeless—not young, not elderly, not even middle-aged. Timeless describes those of us who are vibrant, curious, sexy, healthy, and adventuresome—characteristics usually associated with youthfulness—who are past a certain age. In the 2015 movie, Hello, My Name is Doris, actress Sally Field (who might just…